Nursing home costs and a book recommendation
I’ve been at the hospital a lot lately because my mom had a heart attack. She was on a ventilator and my vocabulary now includes words like exacerbate. I don’t even want to guess what the bill for the hospital stay will be. Even though we never wanted my mom to live in a nursing home, we’re looking into it. Prices range from $4,000 to $6,000 a month. That’s some heavy duty rent. Just thought I’d put that on the table for people who have never had to venture into this territory.
As far as getting through the sorrow of seeing my mom living with the help of machines, I’ve relied a lot of on the advice of a friend of mine who worked with hospice. She told me about a book, “The Final Gift,” and I have ordered it from one of my favorite online book places, abebooks. I am expecting it at the bargain price of $1 for the book and $3 for shipping. If you’re coping with the last stages of your parents’ or loved ones’ lives, I will share my thoughts with you about this book.